Who needs God if we can be good without him?

Following up on “Is it human goodness God is after?” (Jan 26/10), I just read about an appeal for abandoned children in Bulgaria that’s had an amazing response. Money poured in, showing yet again how kind and compassionate we humans can be – as both Christians and non-Christians, too. We all have it in us to [...]

Is it “human goodness” God is after?

Tying in with “Why do I feel so guilty still?” (Jan 25/10), another huge natural disaster has just happened, with its massive cry for aid everywhere you turn – money jars in stores and coffee shops, telethons on TV, school kids collecting small change, etc. – all of which demonstrate human goodness at its shining [...]

Escaping guilt

If you were to ask me the question, “The burden of responsibility – is it ours, or God’s?” (Jan 22/10) I would’ve said “Ours, of course!” because that’s the Christianity I was taught – that the burden of loving God and loving neighbour is on our shoulders. It’s up to me now to obey God [...]

The “burden of responsibility” – is it ours, or God’s?

Tying in with “Obedience, yes – but whose?” (Jan 18/10), I saw a church billboard today with the words, “Responsibility. Jesus help us.” I don’t know how that hits you, but it struck me a nasty blow. First, its stark, one word emphasis on “Responsibility” (with a capital ‘R’) and then the slap, that we’re [...]

Obedience, yes – but whose?

In “Work out your own salvation. Who me?” (Jan 14/10), I thought the answer to “Who, me?” was “Yes, you!” – because I firmly believed it was up to me to make my salvation work.
And how was I supposed to make it work? By following Jesus’ example, of obeying all God’s requirements and expectations, no [...]

“Work out your own salvation.” Who, me?!

Following up on “Trying to live up to expectations – it’s a killer!” (Jan 9/10), why is it that Christians like me are so tough on ourselves, to the point of physical and mental injury? Because in my case I thought salvation depended on me. I understood that Jesus died to forgive all my PAST [...]

Living up to expectations – it’s a killer!

I had to ask myself “Have I understood Christianity correctly?” (Jan 05/10) because the stress of it was killing me.
So what was causing all this stress? Simple: trying to live up to everyone’s expectations, that’s what. Like living up to God’s expectations, for a start, all those laws and rules of behaviour that are meant [...]

Have I understood Christianity correctly?

Following up on “I’m a mess. What do I do?” (Dec 30/09) I began to wonder after all my years in Christianity if I’d understood it correctly, because the stress of it was killing me. Was there something I’d missed, then?
I thought I’d “done my part” fairly well, though. I’d “done what Christians do.” I’d [...]

“I’m in a mess. What do I do?”

I’m in a mess. But why? I thought I’d been doing what Christians are supposed to do.
I’ve been extremely conscientious, taken my responsibilities seriously, studied my Bible ’til my eyes ached, prayed even when I didn’t have anything to say, said “yes” to any request from someone in need, listened for hours to people pouring [...]